Sunday, May 10, 2009

I couldn't let this day go by...

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To all the moms-to-be who have yet to see the children who live in their dreams...

To all the moms who have lost children and bittersweet thoughts of what could have been remain...

To the newbie moms living a reality for which no one could have prepared them - the blessings and the challenges...

To the veteran moms who make parenting look like such a fluid dance...

Make your heart happy today and every day.

Oh, how I look forward to the day of the fluid dance (or even in the neighborhood of a dance). For now, this newbie is still trying to keep footing on quicksand while juggling an entire set of kitchen knives ;0) The good news: I'm starting to think that feeling is normal and, thus, am getting better at it! After all, look at that picture. Mamahood is not for wimps but the victories are the sweetest ever.

Back to the quiet time. Today we will spend time as a family and, later, light a candle in honor of my daughter's first mother.

(Russell, believe me, I will address your incredibly 'sensitive' and 'appropriate' comment from earlier in the month. However, I am not going to take away from sharing Mother's Day with my daughter and my own mother to do so. Perhaps, if you still have your mother you could ask her about grace, kindness and understanding of others who are not as perfect and blessed not to have to work at supporting a family as you must be.)

52 comments:

Kim said...

Happy 1st Mother's Day...(with your baby girl home)
HUGS...
love the photo..
Have a great day...

M and M said...

Happy Mother's Day!!

Enjoy every single minute - as I know you will!!

Laurie said...

Thank you. That was beautiful. Enjoy this day with your little one. And yes, you ARE 'juggling well!' :-)

Pug Mama said...

think of you guys all the time.
Hope you have a wonderful Mother's day.
XOXOXO

Mike and Rhonda said...

Well said....I just want to get on the dance floor!

Happy Mother's Day to you!!!!

Liz and Ava said...

Happy Mother's Day to you too!

Anonymous said...

Happy Mother's Day!

A Beautiful Mess said...

Happy mothers day! Enjoy your day...you have earned it!!

see you soon!!!

xo
mare

Marla said...

Happy Mother's Day, Pipo. Thank you for sharing your journey to your sweetie with all of us.

Hope you have a wonderful day.

Diana said...

Happy 1st Mothers Day to YOU!!! I so remember mine 15 years ago like it was yesterday:)
Enjoy the day with your mom and beautiful daughter!!!

Michelle said...

Happy Mother's Day!

Sara said...

Happy Mother's Day!!

JoAnn in NJ said...

Happy Mother's Day Pipo! I am so thrilled for you to finally get the celebrate this day with your Winglet!

Anonymous said...

Happy 1st Mother's Day to you. Enjoy the relief that comes with waiting no more and the joy that comes with watching little miss wing in the flesh, rather than in your dreams.

HuluMama said...

Happy Mother's Day to you!

Lisa~~ said...

Wishing you a wonderful first Mother's Day!

Unknown said...

Happy 1st Mothers Day to you.
Donna

Unknown said...

Happy Mother's Day. We're thinking of you. I hope things are getting into a good rhythm.

Suzie said...

Happy 1st Mother's Day! I hope it is everything that you ever dreamed it would be!

Sam said...

Happy Mother's Day!!!! You two deserve it!!!!

EJ said...

Happy Mother's Day!! Your message was very well spoken!!

Ellen

Luna said...

I hope you have a wonderful 1st Mother's Day with your girl!! *smooches*....No longer feel like *snorting* ;)

Jewels of My Heart said...

Happy Mother's Day!

Headmeister said...

Happy Mothers Day :)

Kayce said...

Happy Mother's Day to you!!

Donna said...

Hope your first Mother's Day with Claire was perfect!

Gretchen said...

Happy Mother's Day!!! I hope it was a good one. :)

Daniella said...

Happy happy mothers day to you!!!

I don't know what Russell said, but I'd be scared if I was him :)

Enjoy today!!!

geminirn said...

HAPPY HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!!HOPE YOU TWO HAD A FANTASTIC DAY TOGETHER!!!!

Shannon said...

Happy Mother's Day to you! Almost five months down the line and I'm ready to start that fluid dance anytime...I swear my every move equals into a comedy of errors. =)
So glad your girl is in your arms.

~Kristen said...

Hoping your first Mother's Day was wonderful!! Have a great week :o)

Lisa (Briana's Mom) said...

Happy, Happy Mother's Day! I know it was a very special one for you!

Alyson and Ford said...

Oh your first!!
Yes, lighting a candle for her birth Mother is just what we are doing too.
Happy Mother's Day!

Alyzabeth's Mommy

Catherine said...

What a fun, sweet pic of your baby girl!

Happy Mother's Day friend and thank you for your kind words for those of us waiting. (hugs)

a Tonggu Momma said...

Happy first Mother's Day together... been thinking of you tons, PIPO.

Abby's Mom said...

Happy Mommy's Day! Hope it was wonderful :)Love the latest picture too!

Abby's Mom said...

Happy Mommy's Day! Hope it was wonderful :)Love the latest picture too!

M3 said...

Happy Mother's Day! Big day, huh? *grin grin grin*

Robin said...

PiPo.. I hope you had a most amazing day with your little wing!! You are right.. motherhood is not for whimps and the victories are definitely SWEET!!

Who is this Russell person anyway?? I obviously missed his "sensative and appropriate" stupid comment.

Ani said...

Happy (belated) Mother's Day!

Jill said...

Happy Mother's Day!!!

Sofie said...

A big, huge, happy belated Mother's Day.

Lost and Found said...

Happy First Mother's Day. May this special day be the first of many to enjoy with your family.

Kristy said...

Happy 1st Mother's Day!! Have a great "wee while" off!!! Take all the time you need just don't forget about us ok!! Love you both.
Kristy

Middle-Aged Moi said...

Happy Momma-Bear's Day! Trust me, us ....veteran....(cough) moms are just TRICKING you into thinking it's a fluid dance. We're tap dancing. On hot lava. LOL! Seriously, I LOVE it, but it's work, just like everything else worthwhile. I'm just glad I get to do it....:-)

**HUGS**

PS- Looking forward to hearing your response to "Russell".....hmmmm......

OziMum said...

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY to an incredibly Mama and her gorgeous baby girl!

:) Couldn't be sweeter?!

Jboo said...

Hope you had a wonderful first Mother's Day as a Mom! What a sweet beautiful girl your little one is! Take care.

Janet

Special K said...

Been a busy weekend so I'm a couple days late but Happy Mother's Day! That first one with your little one in your arms has to be so surreal and special.

PS. You're doing a great job juggling the knives. I'm not there yet but from what I can see that's what motherhood REALLY IS behind all the smoke and mirrors. LOL!

Tammie said...

I hope you had a very happy 1st mother's day!

Mia said...

I hope you guys had a great Mother's Day!

kitchu said...

you are perhaps one of the kindest people i know. thank you for remembering those of us who wait and who have lost our mom's... it means so much to me personally.

i hope your first mother's day AS a mom was very special C~! love to you both.

Vivian M said...

Thank you, and happy 1st Mother's Day to you too!!!