This is the face I saw within a minute of hitting the car seat (yes, I adjusted the chest thing so no need to email me). Seems one parties hard when they reach 14 months. A little lasagna, a little yogurt, some mandarin oranges and Rice Krispies and all is well with the world.My girl reached 14 months today and has changed in so many ways in such a short time. I have been a mom for 28 days and I can say the same thing about the changes in myself. We're growing together. It takes time and I am lulling into that comfort now. There are moments when I think this mom thing is the easiest gig in the world and I am ready to take on more. There are other (more common and sane) moments when I realize the enormity of this responsibility. This is, indeed, the hardest thing I have ever taken on. In my 28 days as a mom I have seen the depths of frustration, fatigue, and, occasionally, fear. I have also seen the heights of joy, accomplishment, satisfaction and comfort in the little moments. I loved my child before I ever saw her face...now with each day I am growing to love the one child who is, in reality, my daughter.
I am still so new to this role and it is a good thing my daughter is new to having a mom too. It helps her be forgiving when I fall short ;0) I've just been soaking up the rhythms of mamahood these past few days. I won't always have this time for that solo focus so I am making the most of it. I'll be honest and say that the necessities of being a mom, keeping the house running, making all the appointments, etc has been grueling. But, it is all made worthwhile by the moments of pure joy like the belly laugh of my child.
Dream on, little girl.
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SOOOOO BEAUTIFUL..
Happy 14 months..
And Happy 28 days girly..
You are doing just fine..
She knows she is loved..
Have a great weekend,,,
Well said.....the thing I like about mornings, I get to start over with my daughter. Redo (at least try to) the things I did right. Forgive myself and tell Hannah I am sorry where I fell short and try NOT to repeat....it is a new beginning. The fear, fatique, frustration rear their ugly head everyday but, the love for that baby girl grows deeper and purer each and everyday.
Enjoy my friend, endulge yourself in it.
Yes! And just know that I am absolutely convinced that children have virtually no memory of their earliest years because it gives us parents a chance to tackle the learning curve. Beautiful post, PIPO... beautiful photo, too.
What a sweet face that is...
So grateful to watch you go through these stages... and soooo wonderful to see the transition of you as a Mom. truly amazing each moment of it. You make even the hard parts seem easy!!
Thinking of you always, :o)
Beautifully written post.
And what's with the chest thing? I don't know what you're talking about. See how much I have to learn? Geez...
so sweet.
Sometimes being a super mom is just to far to reach. On those days my friend it ok to be a good enough mom!
You crack me up with your "blocks" in your post..."yes, I adjusted the chest thing so no need to email me"
(((Hugs))) to you Girl and your precious little CW!
Wendy
Sounds like you're a mom. Ain't it great? You are right though. These days where you can focus 100% on being a mom are fleeting and precious.
That was just beautiful (just like your daughter).
You are a wonderful mom!!
Congrats. That is a wonderful accomplishment! I'm sure you're both flourishing in your new rolls.
As always, beautiful post.
Happy 14 months, CW! Happy 28 days, Mama!
Umm, what's the chest thing?
Yep. You're a mom alright. You have seemingly grasped motherhood in a nutshell and found the proper priorities all in just 28 days.
As for the baby giggles...I wish we could bottle them up and listen to them on the down days to perk us up.
They sure change us. I said to you before, no one tells us how they change us before we have kids. It is something we have to discover ourselves.
awesome post - and oh so true.
glad you cleared up the car seat strap thing...I was about to call the authorities.
Jeff and I were so clueless when we had Hope....We had her infant car seat facing the wrong way on the drive home from the hospital. (this WAS almost 18 years ago...No need for anyone to worry about how we will care for Ava) ;)
Happy 14 months, CW!
It is so interesting to me to watch your transition from new mom to the one now who is gaining confidence in it all. Pretty soon this will all be old hat (till she throws you a new trick or a new "phase" comes along). I love the sense of humor that you are keeping through all of this, if there is any key to success in parenthood, keeping your humor abou you would be it! :-)
Happy 28! It's better then you ever though it would be isn't it :)
Nothingg like a sleeping baby picture :)
Such a great post C and so so true. Motherhood should come with a manual but then again so should life. You are doing an amazing job no matter how you do it! LOVE LOVE LOVE is all that is required, well maybe a little patience too. Enjoy every moment!
I am so happy that you are getting to experience the joys of motherhood!!! (and the not so joyful moments will get easier as time goes on...)
Kathryn :)
Glad you are enjoying mamahood. It is pretty amazing.
There is nothing more beautiful than falling in love with your child. And discovering how quickly your priorities change!
Welcome to Mamahood!
AMEN~!
A beautiful post. I have all the confidence in the world that you are doing an awesome mommy job. Half the battle is recognizing that we're only human & are bound to make mistakes. The good news? At 14 months, CW has no clue if you're getting it right or wrong. All she knows is the unconditional love & individual attention makes her happy.
Gorgeous post. You took the words right outta my mouth!
I've been a Mum, 3 times, now. And each time is its own very special unique experience, just like each child. Nothing - and I mean NOTHING, is like having a child call you Mum, and all that the title entails.
((Hugs)) girlfriend, and happy 28 days! (oh yeah... happy 14 months to the "Wing" too!)
Happy 14 months Chicken Wing and happy 28 days together Mama and Chicken Wing. You guys are a prefect match!
Hugs,
Jonni
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