Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Nothing like stating the obvious...

I arrived home last evening after a marathon day in the office. Nothing new but I'm starting to 'feel it' that I'm not 22 anymore. I wheeled into the garage and then dragged my sorry bum down the driveway to the mailbox....err, the remains of the mailbox. The door was dangling by one screw, my mail was strewn into the bush beneath it and, as a topper, some sweet soul put a post-it note in the box stating "You need to fix your box". Gee, thanks, I never would have guessed. It's not like I don't do that all day long ;0)

So, I have a mystery. Did the mailman leave the note or was it the person who 'unfixed' my box? If it WAS the 'unfixer' it would have been nice had they fessed up. The box was fine when I left here. I am stumped because I do not live on a through street. It is a cul-de-sac with no one having a reason to be 'passing through'. I am very curious to know the story behind the person(s) fiddling with my box when I'm not looking.

I am having a low-level freak out because I am expecting some important stuff in the mail. Packages, revised papers noting that my name is not 'Carrie', my new I171-H. Granted, the really critical papers wouldn't be here already so I'm not wigging too bad but when one finds their utility bill in the bush it isn't a good feeling about where other things may have ended up. Most of my bills are fully electronic so I'm not too worried about that either but, all the same, I am going to go scope the bushes in neighboring yards today just in case.

So, now my mailbox matches my gutters. Actually, I rigged the box back up and it looks normal but the postman is in for a surprise when the door ends up in his hand. Right now my mailbox is a run-of-the-mill box on a stick. Looks like I'm in the market. What to do? What to do? I could just replace the box (being sensible) or I could pluck out the whole thing and start over. I really don't want one of those plastic dudes though and elaborate wrought iron just doesn't fit with the house. Okay, that's it. I REALLY need a referral because I am fretting over mailbox 'style'.

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Other thoughts:

1) Congrats to waiting parents on, hopefully, avoiding the I800 and all that entails if you started under the I600A! There still seems to be confusion on the number of extensions (my agency interpretation states one more paid extension only after the original paid and one free extension).

2) Thought (about 75%) that I had my daycare dilemma resolved. Nope. The bottom fell out of that and it is back to the drawing board. Hey, I'm getting this 'roll with it' thing down pretty well. The answer will come and there's no use sweating it in the mean time.

3) Our 'Shades of Ike' windstorm several weeks back is indirectly jacking me up. Just TRY to get a reputable roofer around here right now. They are booked solid and I am going to be waiting a while...hoping for the best in the interim. Looks like I will be hanging on to my Addams Family theme around here a while longer. I want the whole deal of woes addressed at once so, I'll be patient. I've gotten really good at that.

Have a great day....I hope all your boxes are intact.

25 comments:

Sandra said...

Interesting about the mailbox. Surely your mail carrier wouldn't leave a message like that??? Then again, it could be some disgruntled mail person.

I guess we were lucky to not have suffered any damage from Ike! It sounds like a lot is going on now, but it sounds like you are channeling that license plate ;-)

Suzie said...

Sorry to hear that someone has been messing with your box :o)

Hopefully the daycare situation will be resolved and a referral will be soon behind it!

Pug Mama said...

I don't care how busy a woman you are - you should ALWAYS be aware if someone is fiddling with your box - even if your not looking. Maybe you wouldn't have this problem if you weren't fully electronic.
jeez....you singe gals.....

Middle-Aged Moi said...

That is very odd, about your mailbox. Perhaps aliens? I always just blame them.

Donna said...

Wow, very weird about your mailbox!

I know that child care quagmire is a pain, but you'll find something you love soon...

Vivian M said...

Sounds like someone needs to learn how to back up properly? It sure sounds like something my Mom would have done when she used to drive!
I hope you get your roof stuff fixed soon. If you are worried about your mail, you can put a free temporary hold on your mail and just pick it up at the post office whenever you are ready. It's a good idea to do that when you go to China too.
I hope your daycare issue gets resolved soon. Of course, you could always move to Canada and I could take care of the little princess. Just a thought. ;op

Laurie said...

That is weird about the box...I would worry a bit too. :-)

And good luck with day care. I know you will find something.

Tammie said...

Ah! Don't worry. The mail person will still deliver to your now warped box. Ours got ruined back in '05 from Wilma. Most of us in the 'hood need the boxes replaced, but you can't buy them anywhere because they're specially made. I say go full tilt, ripout the old & get a nice new one.

Red Sand said...

Ooooh. Roofer issues. I can so completely sympathize. Mailbox - you could install one of those "air mail" boxes that are on a high pulley system that get pulled down to use... keep random abusers distracted. Or are those only used in our rural areas up/over here?

Anonymous said...

Sorry about your box...pretty frustrating and leaves you feeling at loose ends as to the future reliability/security of your mailbox.

Two, not too bright kids came down our rural road (just before we moved last year) on a 4 wheeler and whacked all the mailboxes to bits with iron rods in broad daylight. An alert neighbor saw what was going on and recognized the bright yellow 4 wheeler. The police made a visit to the home of the owner of the 4 wheeler (a few miles away) and the nearly illiterate 15 year old boys were taken to court and the judge made them write letters of apology to each person whose mailbox they had bashed and then they had to pay to replace each and every mailbox they damaged. The letters of apology were pretty lame...didn't sound very sincere...but, I felt better that they had to pay to replace the boxes themselves (or at least their parents did). We submitted our bill and the court promptly mailed us a check that arrived in our new mailbox.

Too bad your neighbors didn't see anything.

Kim said...

Sorry to hear about your mailbox.. I don't know why people can't leave their hands to themselves.. and keep their mits off of other people's stuff..
I am waiting for my updated papers too..
I wish they would hurry up..
Have a Great Week.
Thanks for stopping by.

Life with JJ, Starr and Spice said...

Thank you for good wished about my box staying intact ;0) I hope yours is stable soon ....hugs!

Ava's family said...

Could the box be broken because the pigs got lose again?! ;)

Paulette said...

Boy I wish I had home mail delivery I have to drag my but and my baby to the post every day or so to get the mail. Hope you get those importaint papers soon. I look forward to having the mail on the counter for you when you get home.

Daniella said...

back in NY kids used to drive by and hit mailboxes with bats. You didn't need your referal - you were on a bit of a ramage about the box :) so close....

JMCS said...

Holy cow girlfriend, you are only 8referral days away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so excited for you. C'mon CCAA...

Nina said...

Awwww, sounds like a rough time for you. Sending you big hugs. 000000000000 (these are hugs)

Mike and Rhonda said...

Girl - you are breath of fresh air. You crack me up!!!!You have my sense of humor (that might be a bad thing for you).

Thanks for you encouragement on our blog! So looking forward to seeing your little one and hearing about your referral day.

Shannon said...

The Addams Family had quite a charming house, in it's own way. I certainly know that the dust/cobweb feature is one I continue to emulate in my own house. =) Sorry 'bout the box.
Plus waiting on your referral from this point on is h- e- double- hockey- stix. But your time is coming!!!!! Still trying to guess her name....grrrr. Take care. We are all rootin' for them to finish off Feb in a big way this month!

Special K said...

Sorry... I can't get past Pug Mama's comment. Laughing too hard.

Daniella said...

I meant you DO not didn't

t~ said...

Here's the kicker with that....I fret all the time that someone, or myself will accidentally take out my mailbox. The booger cost $350 buckaroo's to replace and since my teenage driver took out his mailbox, I worry he'll take mine out as well. So do you have a teenage driver in your cul de sac? Cuz the ones in mine can't.

LaLa said...

Sorry your box was missing some screws.... that is weird though!!!

Colleen said...

Oh dag - sorry to her about your box!! LOL..............

Um...I think there are a couple of roofers down in Naples FLA that you can have come help you. Tee-hee.

Kayce said...

Maybe get a duck box where the mail man has to slip the mail through the ducks bill. Just a weird thought from me. 9 days?? Really?? goooood lawd I can't wait to see the day!